on foreign ground, so unnatural.

everything before reads like something out of an instructional manual.

whats changed?

isnt it simply about dominance, a need to prove one's worth of status.

as if speaking more coarsely or bestowing generous portions of profanities genuinely makes (civilized) people hold you in higher esteem.

mister mal, oh, mister mal.

i guess what makes it intimidating is the silence.

the lack of continuity as feared misattribution to either poor engagement skills or perceived aloofness.

a healthy curiosity, let that take the lead instead.

no, thank you.

not a guy who sees a woman as just another rung on Life's ladder to be pursued, conquered then shelved for display like a beautiful trophy ready to be coated with dust.

rather, a man who sees his woman as his partner for Life to be respected, trusted and cherished like a lover who is at once strong and tender.